What is your advice for first time intercourse when the girl is a virgin?

How can we ease the pain (I'm a virgin w/intact hymen)? Any pointers or the best way he should go about it is greatly appreciated. Should he start out slow? Or start out fast %26amp; push hard to quickly get pain over with from breaking the hymen? And yes I know lube is always a good idea %26amp; stuff like that. FYI, I am a 21 yr old on birth control in a monogomous relationship, not some curious 13 year old. Thanks for input/advice. What is your advice for first time intercourse when the girl is a virgin?
It may take a bit of pressure for him to break your hymen if it is intact. My advice would be for him to penetrate you, then hold still for a few seconds while you get used to the feeling. This was what my guy did with me. He only started thrusting after I assured him I was OK. Make sure he is gentle, you are going to feel some discomfort your first time. Mine felt like a very hard pinch for the first minute or two, then pleasure took over. It went so well that first time we did it a second time that same night.What is your advice for first time intercourse when the girl is a virgin?
Women's hymen usually breaks before they are even into there teens. The reason for this is because of tampons, exercise, rough activities, etc. The only reason that it hurts during intercourse is because your vagina still has a lot of skin still tightly bound and when you insert the penis into the vagina, the skin will rip and tear in little places. Just tell him to take it very slow and when you start to hurt tell him to stop and just kiss for a little bit until you're comfortable with it again. Hope this helps!
Definitely take your time with foreplay.


The more the better.


You're right about the lube, great addition.


He should go slow. Speed it up later.


Just because it's you're first time doesn't mean it's going to hurt.\


I thought it would to, and kind of had this paranoia going on.


Definitely didn't.


Just relax and go for it.
i lost mine a while ago =/


kinda wish i didnt


yet i love that boy with all my heart


%26amp;%26amp; there is no one i would have rather


lost it with.


i just wish i would have waited till i was at least 18 lol


my hymen was already gone from useing tampons and


getting a papsmear [[which i had to have done to


get on birth control pills]] so im guessing you had


to have one too... i think its good your being smart


and prepaired etc. it hurt, not that much tho


we went slow. i didnt bleed [[hymen gone]] u might tho


and i suppose if your hymen has to tear it will


be alot more painfull. idk still dosnt really seam worht it for


meYET still alot of pain and no fun for me lmao


but you know what they say


practice makes perfect. lol... %26lt;3Q
yes go slow at first and you will know how your own bodies feel as you say lube is a good help and you will know yourself what your body is accepting follow these few easy staps and take the rest as it happens
Lots of foreplay first of all. Then go slow and make sure you're wet enough. If you need lubrication don't be embarrassed to say so. Slow and nice is always better than fast and hard.
Go to your gynecologist, tell her that you are worried about it hurting the first time you have sex, and she will take care of it. Trust me.
Relax and go slow. Allow your body to adjust to him. You will be sore for a few days.