Advice please? I keep going out w/ guys who are nice at 1st & turn out to be jerks

How do I tell which ones are nice for real?Advice please? I keep going out w/ guys who are nice at 1st %26amp; turn out to be jerks
take a break from datingAdvice please? I keep going out w/ guys who are nice at 1st %26amp; turn out to be jerks
be patient and eventually a non-jerk will appear.
you can never know youll have to keep experimenting and find out
shy guys are legit nice usually
u wont liek a ncie guy anyway, thats too boring for u
Usually people date people that are the same. The reason for this is that us women are with guys that are a certain way because subconsciously we feel that it is the relationship we deserve. It is up to you to break the cycle!
heres a stretch ask jerks out and see if they turn out for the good might happen dont knock it to you try it
Find out before you date them.
If they are being overly nice as in seeming to good to be true and sweep you off your feet the first date, watch out.
All guys are jerks... You should wait until you are 30 to date...
you should date me...I am a jerk right off the bat....how is that for change?
Look for a new type of guys. They might end up being what you like. =D
Are they really nice at first, or is it just that they're telling you everything you want to hear? Most of us guys would tell Jessica Simpson she should be in Mensa if we wanted to get in her pants. It's all about learning to sift out the bullshit from the sincerity, which is a good skill to have in all areas of life, not just dating.
Don't be easy. Jerks won't chase you for long if you play hard to get. It's not worth their time.
i believe they're all that way til you find the one



ask mutual friends what their impression of the person is and dont rush in to relationships
I bet they are really cute though, huh?
i say do the complete opposite, date a guy u think is a jerk and im sure they'll turn out nice.





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spend more time getting to know them, and choose carefully
I think all guys are assholes.


That's just how they are.
Easy,


He'll respect you


He'll respect your friends


He'll listen to what you have to say


He wont go against your opinons


He will make fun of you, but jokingly


Someone who will care but wont overreact that you're hanging out with another guy friend








jerks.


make fun of you


make fun of your friends


ignores you when he's with other people


want to have sex with you instead of talking


wont say sorry inperson.



quite ones, good looking ones, non thug looking ones
i don't know
maybe its you.
mess around with them a little and see if you can make them mad


if they get mad they are not nice
welcome to the dating world.


everyone is a jerk at one point in time or another...


its just what you're willing to put up with.





even the quite nice guys can have a dark side too.





just go off personality and find somebody you have chemistry with.
You just have to trust them. It's hard to tell, guys can be sneaky!





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Maybe their nice until they get what they want. You should look for a guy that is not in such a hurry. Maybe you are only looking at the clubs. We don't know where you are finding these guys. It works both ways, but remember, you can't make a ho a housewife...
That's something you can only learn from experience. Or you can check references from other girls they have gone out with.





No guy is going to act like a jerk when you first meet them. They always have to make a good impression. But once you start dating them, there are always red flags that you can look for and pay attention to. The instant a guy misbehaves or you get an indication that he might be one of those jerks, end the date. END IT RIGHT THEN !





Go home and never talk to him again. Don't give Mr. Smooth a chance to explain, apologize, or tell you he'll change.





One chance. That's all they get. Don't give him the opportunity to turn into the jerk.
make sure they are nice before you date them