What piece of advice do youwish you had been told before you married into the british army?

i'm trying to find out helpful hints/tips to put into a booklet for new wives of the british army. what do you wish you knew before you married into the army wives life?What piece of advice do youwish you had been told before you married into the british army?
uhhh good luck on that one.What piece of advice do youwish you had been told before you married into the british army?
that you will always be the minor rank in the house.