she thinks shes queen of the houseWell sometimes my grandma is nice but sometimes she can be a jerk can you please give me some advice?
Do you live with your Grandmother or does she live with you? If she lives in your home then being queen of the house is not the option. She is in your territory and therefore should respect your space. If she gives you smart remarks, calls you names or shouts at you a simple ';Grandma';! with a look of dissapointment and hurt to accompany it would let her know what she's doing without you physically needing to have a sitdown. If you live with her then the question is what can you do to help make her invasion of privacy less stressful. Elders always demand respect as was how they were brought up. If she senses any disrespect coming from you then an attitude from her might be the way she defends her stance. Try looking at it from her view and then try and come up with solutions on how you can make the situation a little better for you AND her.Well sometimes my grandma is nice but sometimes she can be a jerk can you please give me some advice?
maybe she is the queen of the house?
everyone has their faults, and we can all be a little annoying at times. yes, even you an me.
so, accept grandma for the person she is, and move forward with your own life.
My grandma is the same way. Just try to ignore her.
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just be proud you got your grandmother she won't always be around
been there just ignore her or tune her out thats what i do and it works!!!
Thursday, December 31, 2009
What advice would you give your best girlfriend if she were traveling alone for the first time?
If you have traveled alone before and learned from the experience what advice (besides safety first)would you give your best (girl)friend if she were heading out to the big open for the first time alone?What advice would you give your best girlfriend if she were traveling alone for the first time?
Tell her to chum up with other young ladies who are also traveling alone, or at least to sit near other women in bus stations/on trains. Also, one thing I did when traveling alone at night on trains was to put a plastic bag on the inside of the door handle so that I could sleep. That way, if someone opened the door I would hear the plastic bag making that crinkling noise and I would wake up. Sometimes I'd also put a second plastic bag on the floor where someone would step on it, thereby making noise or slipping! I was a paranoid sleeper on trains, ha ha. Tell her that many women have done it before and she will be fine. I was SO scared before I left and it's a crazy thing to do, but what an amazing experience and a great chance to learn about herself and become more independent. People give me props all the time for doing it, so it's going to get her some free lunches for the rest of her life just having people want to hear about it. :)What advice would you give your best girlfriend if she were traveling alone for the first time?
I would tell her to keep track of her money. Also, keep her money and anything valuable, such as a cellphone, in the front pockets of her jeans. It is much easier to take a purse than jeans.
Aso she should carry something with her at all times that can be used in her defense if anything happens. Anything simple will do, I have a pocket knife, my sister has mace... Almost anything can work.
The most important thing is probably to keep track of herself, where she is and where she's going. It's too easy to get lost in a new place, and you want to avoid asking some random person on the street. If she does need to ask someone, a policeman or a woman would do.
always carry a phone around with you.
Don't be in an area in an airport where hardly any people are.
They always have some peope kidnapped in those areas.
Tell her to chum up with other young ladies who are also traveling alone, or at least to sit near other women in bus stations/on trains. Also, one thing I did when traveling alone at night on trains was to put a plastic bag on the inside of the door handle so that I could sleep. That way, if someone opened the door I would hear the plastic bag making that crinkling noise and I would wake up. Sometimes I'd also put a second plastic bag on the floor where someone would step on it, thereby making noise or slipping! I was a paranoid sleeper on trains, ha ha. Tell her that many women have done it before and she will be fine. I was SO scared before I left and it's a crazy thing to do, but what an amazing experience and a great chance to learn about herself and become more independent. People give me props all the time for doing it, so it's going to get her some free lunches for the rest of her life just having people want to hear about it. :)What advice would you give your best girlfriend if she were traveling alone for the first time?
I would tell her to keep track of her money. Also, keep her money and anything valuable, such as a cellphone, in the front pockets of her jeans. It is much easier to take a purse than jeans.
Aso she should carry something with her at all times that can be used in her defense if anything happens. Anything simple will do, I have a pocket knife, my sister has mace... Almost anything can work.
The most important thing is probably to keep track of herself, where she is and where she's going. It's too easy to get lost in a new place, and you want to avoid asking some random person on the street. If she does need to ask someone, a policeman or a woman would do.
always carry a phone around with you.
Don't be in an area in an airport where hardly any people are.
They always have some peope kidnapped in those areas.
What is the most important thing about giving advice to others?
What are the basics in helping them, and not do anything wrong? My job involves it and I need a few pointers just to be sure I don't mess up.What is the most important thing about giving advice to others?
Be a diplomate. If you are only giving advice, and not orders, listen. Find out what they REALLY want - advice or agreement. If they want agreement they won't appreciate good advice that runs contrary to what they have already decided. They will simply keep looking till they find someone who will say what they WANT to hear. if they truely want advice, give it... but only if you can turn around and accept that they won't take it without getting upset with them.
(Look at me! I just gave advice about advice!)What is the most important thing about giving advice to others?
Well you should probably say what you would do (unless it would be something like violent) but yeah say what you would do, or if your not really sure then say that you are not sure what to do and tell them what you would most likely do and tell them to do what they think is right... hope that helped?!
-Molly- : )
Giving advice, like here, is easier than offering constructive criticism. Advice is requested. A critique usually isn't. Either way you might open your remarks with a question. This should prompt an easier exchange of ideas. Before they have an opportunity to respond, ask them think about your question and reply with an email.
As you answer each email with another question, the responder should begin to act on your remedy without even realizing it. While you may not receive direct credit for the change in procedure, you will be recognized for the improvement in morale and efficiency. Good Luck.
Realize that every one and every situation is different. Everyone has not had the same experiences as you have had, so try not to base everything on how you would solve it.
The most important part is to listen to them first.
Be a diplomate. If you are only giving advice, and not orders, listen. Find out what they REALLY want - advice or agreement. If they want agreement they won't appreciate good advice that runs contrary to what they have already decided. They will simply keep looking till they find someone who will say what they WANT to hear. if they truely want advice, give it... but only if you can turn around and accept that they won't take it without getting upset with them.
(Look at me! I just gave advice about advice!)What is the most important thing about giving advice to others?
Well you should probably say what you would do (unless it would be something like violent) but yeah say what you would do, or if your not really sure then say that you are not sure what to do and tell them what you would most likely do and tell them to do what they think is right... hope that helped?!
-Molly- : )
Giving advice, like here, is easier than offering constructive criticism. Advice is requested. A critique usually isn't. Either way you might open your remarks with a question. This should prompt an easier exchange of ideas. Before they have an opportunity to respond, ask them think about your question and reply with an email.
As you answer each email with another question, the responder should begin to act on your remedy without even realizing it. While you may not receive direct credit for the change in procedure, you will be recognized for the improvement in morale and efficiency. Good Luck.
Realize that every one and every situation is different. Everyone has not had the same experiences as you have had, so try not to base everything on how you would solve it.
The most important part is to listen to them first.
What advice could you give me if I was to start my own business as a Boarding Kennel Operator?
Thanks :)What advice could you give me if I was to start my own business as a Boarding Kennel Operator?
http://www.kenneldesign.com/products/kit鈥?/a>
http://www.kenneldesign.com/
http://www.ehow.com/how_2083090_open-pet鈥?/a>
http://www.ehow.com/how_16580_start-kenn鈥?/a>
And try to google this: 'Running your own boarding kennels by David Cavill 3rd edition'
Which is the reference for a book you can look up online which puts the focus primarily on how a person can start up a boarding kennel.
I hope that these links can help you but try to find and buy that book in particular because it has everything you need to know inside.
Good Luck!!!!What advice could you give me if I was to start my own business as a Boarding Kennel Operator?
references..most towns/cities wont give you a kennel permit because of the waste especially if it's near houses
http://www.kenneldesign.com/products/kit鈥?/a>
http://www.kenneldesign.com/
http://www.ehow.com/how_2083090_open-pet鈥?/a>
http://www.ehow.com/how_16580_start-kenn鈥?/a>
And try to google this: 'Running your own boarding kennels by David Cavill 3rd edition'
Which is the reference for a book you can look up online which puts the focus primarily on how a person can start up a boarding kennel.
I hope that these links can help you but try to find and buy that book in particular because it has everything you need to know inside.
Good Luck!!!!What advice could you give me if I was to start my own business as a Boarding Kennel Operator?
references..most towns/cities wont give you a kennel permit because of the waste especially if it's near houses
What advice would you give to a person that has been betrayed by their spouse?
And when offering this advice, have you ever been in their shoes? If not what do you base your advice on?
I know this is more than one question but they tie together.What advice would you give to a person that has been betrayed by their spouse?
I follow the saying, ';To err is human, to forgive is divine';...and yes I've been in their shoes, and all I'm going to say is that the year was 2003 and my husband's lover's name was ';Pam the Gym Rat';...What advice would you give to a person that has been betrayed by their spouse?
Think long and hard before you act upon your initial thoughts. My wife and I went through a very hard time. We betrayed each other. She with held affection from me and I in turn went and found affection outside our marriage. Had I not acted upon my first instinct which was I'm going to make her hurt the way I hurt we wouldn't have come so very very close to divorce. We wouldn't have put our son through so much like watching our relationship deteriorate, hearing the talk of divorce, wondering if it was his fault. Putting ourselves through hell trying our best to kill what was at the time an 11 yr marriage. Had we taken the time to communicate rather than try so hard to hurt each other none of this would have happened.
So to answer your question straight forward I'd say try your level best to communicate with your spouse (including marriage counseling) and find out why this happened and if you forgive them and decide to stay married to them, get guarantees that it will never happen again and make crystal clear in your spouses mind what will happen if you are ever betrayed again
I think it really depends on how long you have been together. I have only been with my husband for four years but I thought he had cheated on me and he told me that one of his friends cheated on his wife. I thought he was talking about himself. I told him I would never speak to him again and it would be over for sure. But I love him and if he could prove he would never do it again. I would stay with him. It would be a lot of him sleeping on the couch and his opinion doesn't mean anything until I said it did but I think once you find your soul mate or life companion and you are comfortable with your decision, sometimes you have to give second chances.
it depends on what the betrayal was. if he/she cheated then its a matter of why they did it. do they love the person they cheated on you with? was he/she so frustated sexually that he/she had to resort to unfaithfullness? don't automatically jusmp to conclusions. maybe the betrayer didnt mean for it to happen. if you look at situations that have happened in other marriages, you'll see that there are so many different scenarios that could've happened. but i could be wrong...the betrayer could just be a cheating spouse just like many other cheating spouses. they got tired of it at home and wanted 'variety' or what ever.in that case...**** em. make them want you back so bad they will do anything. show them what theyre missing. and if you want them back too then get back together...if you dont then theyll know the mistake they made for the rest of their life
I have been cheated on before. I found out 6 months ago that my husband cheated on me. So yes, I've been in their shoes.
First of all, my advice would be decide if you want to stay in the marriage or not. Look at yr spouse's behaviour etc.
Then get counselling. Individual and marriage counselling for BOTH of you. Especially for him (the cheater) - he needs to find out why he cheated and how to prevent it from happening again.
If you are staying, get a Plan B ready. Have a secret savings account. Know all your rights - will u get the house? custody of kids? etc. Invest 100% into your marriage (if you're staying) but also invest 100% into Plan B, because you never know what sh!t might hit you in the future.
Most importantly, take care of yourself.
this is the advice i was once given,
ride it out, stay away for a bit, no talk, no nothing, when u feel like it and when u know what U wanna do, u go talk to him/her just to see where he/she is at ...if u want u can just meet up with him/her once.. and really think about, what U want..now that u know how HE/SHE is feeling...
Ive tried it on couple of friends.. =S it has worked, its really hard to advice ppl on risky situations, so it depends how close of a friend u two are...
u have to make up ur mind do u wanna stay or go, if u stay will u be able to trust him again? my boyfriend has betrayed me over and over again, and for some reason i choose to stay with him, that's y i am so unhappy now, after 7 years, i want out i had enough, i wonder if i would have left him alone the 1st time he did it, would i be so hurt now!
My husband and I had been married for almost 20 years..Yes, he betrayed me..We had a large farm, lots of animals and a beautiful Log cabin home..We lived in central Florida (I still do)...After we separated, I left the home because of his temper and abuse and he went out and found himself a new girlfriend..but that isn't the only place he betrayed the whole family...He started telling the family within a short few months that the house and land were being foreclosed on..The Bank is taking it all..I kept asking him if he were keeping up with the payments and he wouldn't answer...The day came for the bank sale and he said after the bills were paid, he was left with less than 5, 000...This was on property and land and home worth almost half a million dollars...He said he lost it all...Gave me a few dollars..less than 1000 to help with my rent..Move forward about 6 years..Dear Christian hubby and I divorced and he moved to Asia and remarried..My oldest daughter is a mortgage broker and one day when she was bored, she started pulling up public records..entering Dad's name..Guess what came up..Dear hubby had SOLD everything..sold everything as an unmarried man...Sold our home, land, furniture, livestock..anything that wasn;t tied down.He sold as an unmarried man while we were still married..and he walked away with all the money and left the country..Left me and the children with nothing..nothing...almost homeless..my attorney tells me there is nothing I can do about it..even tho I lived in that house for 15 years, being his wife..I hear my EX is preaching on Sundays....
Move on, they obviously did. I've been in their shoes, more than once. The best thing is to not grovel or seem desperate by looking back, contacting or even seeming upset. This is the best slap in the face that you can deliver. They'll wonder why they weren't a big deal. Worked for me!!
well if you really love the person you marry and wanna be with him /her for the rest of your life, then give him/her a chance..all you need is TRUST..
im in the situation right now..and we are going very well (as of now)..
divorce! Anything else--any sign of complacency sends the message that u r a doormat!
you need to find out why first. even if you go your own way. that way you don't have a repeat later.
move on
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I know this is more than one question but they tie together.What advice would you give to a person that has been betrayed by their spouse?
I follow the saying, ';To err is human, to forgive is divine';...and yes I've been in their shoes, and all I'm going to say is that the year was 2003 and my husband's lover's name was ';Pam the Gym Rat';...What advice would you give to a person that has been betrayed by their spouse?
Think long and hard before you act upon your initial thoughts. My wife and I went through a very hard time. We betrayed each other. She with held affection from me and I in turn went and found affection outside our marriage. Had I not acted upon my first instinct which was I'm going to make her hurt the way I hurt we wouldn't have come so very very close to divorce. We wouldn't have put our son through so much like watching our relationship deteriorate, hearing the talk of divorce, wondering if it was his fault. Putting ourselves through hell trying our best to kill what was at the time an 11 yr marriage. Had we taken the time to communicate rather than try so hard to hurt each other none of this would have happened.
So to answer your question straight forward I'd say try your level best to communicate with your spouse (including marriage counseling) and find out why this happened and if you forgive them and decide to stay married to them, get guarantees that it will never happen again and make crystal clear in your spouses mind what will happen if you are ever betrayed again
I think it really depends on how long you have been together. I have only been with my husband for four years but I thought he had cheated on me and he told me that one of his friends cheated on his wife. I thought he was talking about himself. I told him I would never speak to him again and it would be over for sure. But I love him and if he could prove he would never do it again. I would stay with him. It would be a lot of him sleeping on the couch and his opinion doesn't mean anything until I said it did but I think once you find your soul mate or life companion and you are comfortable with your decision, sometimes you have to give second chances.
it depends on what the betrayal was. if he/she cheated then its a matter of why they did it. do they love the person they cheated on you with? was he/she so frustated sexually that he/she had to resort to unfaithfullness? don't automatically jusmp to conclusions. maybe the betrayer didnt mean for it to happen. if you look at situations that have happened in other marriages, you'll see that there are so many different scenarios that could've happened. but i could be wrong...the betrayer could just be a cheating spouse just like many other cheating spouses. they got tired of it at home and wanted 'variety' or what ever.in that case...**** em. make them want you back so bad they will do anything. show them what theyre missing. and if you want them back too then get back together...if you dont then theyll know the mistake they made for the rest of their life
I have been cheated on before. I found out 6 months ago that my husband cheated on me. So yes, I've been in their shoes.
First of all, my advice would be decide if you want to stay in the marriage or not. Look at yr spouse's behaviour etc.
Then get counselling. Individual and marriage counselling for BOTH of you. Especially for him (the cheater) - he needs to find out why he cheated and how to prevent it from happening again.
If you are staying, get a Plan B ready. Have a secret savings account. Know all your rights - will u get the house? custody of kids? etc. Invest 100% into your marriage (if you're staying) but also invest 100% into Plan B, because you never know what sh!t might hit you in the future.
Most importantly, take care of yourself.
this is the advice i was once given,
ride it out, stay away for a bit, no talk, no nothing, when u feel like it and when u know what U wanna do, u go talk to him/her just to see where he/she is at ...if u want u can just meet up with him/her once.. and really think about, what U want..now that u know how HE/SHE is feeling...
Ive tried it on couple of friends.. =S it has worked, its really hard to advice ppl on risky situations, so it depends how close of a friend u two are...
u have to make up ur mind do u wanna stay or go, if u stay will u be able to trust him again? my boyfriend has betrayed me over and over again, and for some reason i choose to stay with him, that's y i am so unhappy now, after 7 years, i want out i had enough, i wonder if i would have left him alone the 1st time he did it, would i be so hurt now!
My husband and I had been married for almost 20 years..Yes, he betrayed me..We had a large farm, lots of animals and a beautiful Log cabin home..We lived in central Florida (I still do)...After we separated, I left the home because of his temper and abuse and he went out and found himself a new girlfriend..but that isn't the only place he betrayed the whole family...He started telling the family within a short few months that the house and land were being foreclosed on..The Bank is taking it all..I kept asking him if he were keeping up with the payments and he wouldn't answer...The day came for the bank sale and he said after the bills were paid, he was left with less than 5, 000...This was on property and land and home worth almost half a million dollars...He said he lost it all...Gave me a few dollars..less than 1000 to help with my rent..Move forward about 6 years..Dear Christian hubby and I divorced and he moved to Asia and remarried..My oldest daughter is a mortgage broker and one day when she was bored, she started pulling up public records..entering Dad's name..Guess what came up..Dear hubby had SOLD everything..sold everything as an unmarried man...Sold our home, land, furniture, livestock..anything that wasn;t tied down.He sold as an unmarried man while we were still married..and he walked away with all the money and left the country..Left me and the children with nothing..nothing...almost homeless..my attorney tells me there is nothing I can do about it..even tho I lived in that house for 15 years, being his wife..I hear my EX is preaching on Sundays....
Move on, they obviously did. I've been in their shoes, more than once. The best thing is to not grovel or seem desperate by looking back, contacting or even seeming upset. This is the best slap in the face that you can deliver. They'll wonder why they weren't a big deal. Worked for me!!
well if you really love the person you marry and wanna be with him /her for the rest of your life, then give him/her a chance..all you need is TRUST..
im in the situation right now..and we are going very well (as of now)..
divorce! Anything else--any sign of complacency sends the message that u r a doormat!
you need to find out why first. even if you go your own way. that way you don't have a repeat later.
move on
its more practical
Taking the Hoodia product that helps curb your appetite and it doesn't seem to be working. Anyone have advice
I'm following the directions and don't feel like i'm eating as much as before but still not losing weight.Taking the Hoodia product that helps curb your appetite and it doesn't seem to be working. Anyone have advice
Please do not try diet pills because they are not the long term answer and many can cause negative health effects. Consider a healthy lifestyle change.
The following healthy living recommendations will help you if you’re trying to lose weight, tone up your muscles, have aspirations of building lean muscle mass, are attempting to get a wash board stomach, or just want to feel better:
*1) Burn more calories then you're consuming everyday and measure your results using the following formula: Calories Consumed minus Basal Metabolic Rate (BMR) minus Physical Activity minus the Thermic Effect of Food (TEF). A website that explains this formula in more detail and will help you determine how many calories you need to reach or maintain a certain weight is at http://www.primusweb.com/fitnesspartner/…
Get a diet and fitness calculator that you can put on your computer or cell phone. This will allow you to easily calculate the above formula, set goals, log your daily calorie consumption, and register your physical activities.
Set realistic goals for your ideal body weight. Here are two websites that will calculate a suggested body weight:
Adults: http://www.halls.md/ideal-weight/body.ht…
Teens/Children: http://www.kidshealth.org/kid/exercise/w…
It is difficult and unhealthy to lose more than one or two pounds per week. There are 3,500 calories in a pound. If you eat 500 fewer calories per day for a week you will lose one pound. If you burn through exercise 500 more calories per day for a week you will lose one pound.
*2) Eat natural and organic foods found on earth versus something created by a corporation to make money. Eat meals in small portions throughout the day and take a good multi-vitamin supplement.
Avoid “High Glycemic Load Carbs” (sugar, pastries, desserts, refined starches such as breads, pasta, refined grains like white rice; high starch vegetables such as potatoes) and drink lots of water. Read this article for more information on high GL Carbs:
http://www.hsph.harvard.edu/nutritionsou…
Do not try fad diets or diet pills. Here is an excellent food pyramid that anyone can follow: http://www.rayandterry.com/html/images/P…
*3) Exercise on most days by doing cardiovascular training and/or resistance training activities.
Read a book or find a certified trainer to make sure your doing all resistance training exercises correctly. A great book to buy that teaches you the resistance training basics is “Weight Training for Dummies”. A superb magazine to buy with resistance training routines that will not get you bored is ';Muscle and Fitness';. Signup for the free newsletter. An excellent free online resource is at http://www.exrx.net/
A good book to buy that teaches you the cardiovascular training basics is “Fitness for Dummies”.
*4) Get plenty of sleep. Sleep experts say most adults need between seven and nine hours of sleep each night for optimum performance, health, and safety.
*5) Educate yourself continually on health issues and make a life long commitment to good health. A great free publication is “Dietary Guidelines for Americans 2005”. A superb book to read is “You The Owner’s Manual”. An excellent periodic publication is the “Nutrition Action Health Letter”. A reputable test you can take to measure your biological age is at http://realage.com
Look at all areas where you can enhance your health. For example, make improvements in the quality of the air you breathe. Review outdoor air quality forecasts where you live and get an indoor air purifier. Send me an email or yahoo instant message to ';gainbetterhealth'; if you want an indoor air purifier recommendation and if you have any questions.
*Click on all the source links below to get the full benefit of the recommendations. The answers presented to your health questions are not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health providers with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition.Taking the Hoodia product that helps curb your appetite and it doesn't seem to be working. Anyone have advice
Unfortunately, you probably bought fake hoodia. Real Hoodia works, no doubt about it. Read the Fake Hoodia Report below; see if your brand, or lot # is listed.
Homeopathic Treatment for Excessive Fat and Weight :-
PHYTOLACCA BERRY's Mother Tincture is perhaps the safest and sure fire way of loosing excessive fat around abdomen. With Phytolacca Berry once you loose the excessive fat and weight you don't get it back because you body takes care of itself after that and keeps you from gathering up excessive fat. It is prescribed after having a baby too, to get the tummy to loose its flab and to make it flatter and tighter. And after loosing weight with this you don't get flabby it tightens up the flab and skin along with helping your body to shed the excessive accumulation of fat around the girth
The dosage is 15 to 20 drops of the tincture in half a cup of hot water thrice a day half hour before or after meals.
Avoid Chocolates, Coffee, Mints, Red Meat and Carbonated and Alcoholic drinks while taking Homeopathic Medicines. You have to take it for at least 30 to 45 days after that you start to feel the results.
To the best of my knowledge its the safest and the most sure fire way of loosing fat and weight and keeping it of for keeps. Excellent remedy for Obese people who cant seem to shed weight despite trying.
Homeopathic Remedies can be found at all Major Herbal Stores or could be bought on line, In most of the world Homeopathic remedies are quite cheap and easy to find and they do not need a prescription.
Take care and God Bless !
P.S
Regular active exercise is advised with all weight loosing medicines and remedies :-) Take care
Please do not try diet pills because they are not the long term answer and many can cause negative health effects. Consider a healthy lifestyle change.
The following healthy living recommendations will help you if you’re trying to lose weight, tone up your muscles, have aspirations of building lean muscle mass, are attempting to get a wash board stomach, or just want to feel better:
*1) Burn more calories then you're consuming everyday and measure your results using the following formula: Calories Consumed minus Basal Metabolic Rate (BMR) minus Physical Activity minus the Thermic Effect of Food (TEF). A website that explains this formula in more detail and will help you determine how many calories you need to reach or maintain a certain weight is at http://www.primusweb.com/fitnesspartner/…
Get a diet and fitness calculator that you can put on your computer or cell phone. This will allow you to easily calculate the above formula, set goals, log your daily calorie consumption, and register your physical activities.
Set realistic goals for your ideal body weight. Here are two websites that will calculate a suggested body weight:
Adults: http://www.halls.md/ideal-weight/body.ht…
Teens/Children: http://www.kidshealth.org/kid/exercise/w…
It is difficult and unhealthy to lose more than one or two pounds per week. There are 3,500 calories in a pound. If you eat 500 fewer calories per day for a week you will lose one pound. If you burn through exercise 500 more calories per day for a week you will lose one pound.
*2) Eat natural and organic foods found on earth versus something created by a corporation to make money. Eat meals in small portions throughout the day and take a good multi-vitamin supplement.
Avoid “High Glycemic Load Carbs” (sugar, pastries, desserts, refined starches such as breads, pasta, refined grains like white rice; high starch vegetables such as potatoes) and drink lots of water. Read this article for more information on high GL Carbs:
http://www.hsph.harvard.edu/nutritionsou…
Do not try fad diets or diet pills. Here is an excellent food pyramid that anyone can follow: http://www.rayandterry.com/html/images/P…
*3) Exercise on most days by doing cardiovascular training and/or resistance training activities.
Read a book or find a certified trainer to make sure your doing all resistance training exercises correctly. A great book to buy that teaches you the resistance training basics is “Weight Training for Dummies”. A superb magazine to buy with resistance training routines that will not get you bored is ';Muscle and Fitness';. Signup for the free newsletter. An excellent free online resource is at http://www.exrx.net/
A good book to buy that teaches you the cardiovascular training basics is “Fitness for Dummies”.
*4) Get plenty of sleep. Sleep experts say most adults need between seven and nine hours of sleep each night for optimum performance, health, and safety.
*5) Educate yourself continually on health issues and make a life long commitment to good health. A great free publication is “Dietary Guidelines for Americans 2005”. A superb book to read is “You The Owner’s Manual”. An excellent periodic publication is the “Nutrition Action Health Letter”. A reputable test you can take to measure your biological age is at http://realage.com
Look at all areas where you can enhance your health. For example, make improvements in the quality of the air you breathe. Review outdoor air quality forecasts where you live and get an indoor air purifier. Send me an email or yahoo instant message to ';gainbetterhealth'; if you want an indoor air purifier recommendation and if you have any questions.
*Click on all the source links below to get the full benefit of the recommendations. The answers presented to your health questions are not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health providers with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition.Taking the Hoodia product that helps curb your appetite and it doesn't seem to be working. Anyone have advice
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Homeopathic Treatment for Excessive Fat and Weight :-
PHYTOLACCA BERRY's Mother Tincture is perhaps the safest and sure fire way of loosing excessive fat around abdomen. With Phytolacca Berry once you loose the excessive fat and weight you don't get it back because you body takes care of itself after that and keeps you from gathering up excessive fat. It is prescribed after having a baby too, to get the tummy to loose its flab and to make it flatter and tighter. And after loosing weight with this you don't get flabby it tightens up the flab and skin along with helping your body to shed the excessive accumulation of fat around the girth
The dosage is 15 to 20 drops of the tincture in half a cup of hot water thrice a day half hour before or after meals.
Avoid Chocolates, Coffee, Mints, Red Meat and Carbonated and Alcoholic drinks while taking Homeopathic Medicines. You have to take it for at least 30 to 45 days after that you start to feel the results.
To the best of my knowledge its the safest and the most sure fire way of loosing fat and weight and keeping it of for keeps. Excellent remedy for Obese people who cant seem to shed weight despite trying.
Homeopathic Remedies can be found at all Major Herbal Stores or could be bought on line, In most of the world Homeopathic remedies are quite cheap and easy to find and they do not need a prescription.
Take care and God Bless !
P.S
Regular active exercise is advised with all weight loosing medicines and remedies :-) Take care
Needing advice for my friend, who was recently served a noise disturbance for a dog?
If they plea no contest, isn't that essentially an admission of guilt?
Isn't that the job a dogs to bark, when someone is near your property?Needing advice for my friend, who was recently served a noise disturbance for a dog?
A bark here or there is not a problem , It is when the dog barks all the time and the owner does nothing to quite him/her. It is the dog owners responsibility to make sure the dog is not disturbing the peace.
There is a guy in town who's dog is always barking. In the last month and 1/2 he has received 4 citations and fines of $150 for each citation plus court cost. Pretty steep price to pay for a dog barking, when all the owner had to do is go see what the problem is, tell the dog to be quiet or bring it in the house.Needing advice for my friend, who was recently served a noise disturbance for a dog?
not really but he will be fined most cities have it that if a dog barks too loud or too long u can be cited i know the feeling i fought and one my dog was prevoked the neighbor would tease so he could call the cops
Dogs bark yes, however, you should not allow your dog to bark for hours on end, expecially after certain hours. The dog should be brought inside, or given an activity to do to distract it from barking.
I dont know all the legal mumbo-jumbo, you may want to ask in the legal section.
Go to the legal section..they will be able to help you more than we can.
Good luck.
If your friend is not contestiong the ticket, then it may not mean that he is guilty, but the judge (if he goes in front of one) may ask him if he is.. but it's unlikely. Often, pleading guilty will get you a much lighter fine than if you try to fight it. A dog's responsibility is to be a family member, and inside with the pack. If the neighbors have an audio recording of the dog's barking.. and it is deemed excessive, then the owner needs to keep his dog quite at all costs.. it's no fun to live near a constantly barking dog, whether it be during the day or night
They are guilty for letting it get to the point that they had to be served! Try a bark collar to train the dog when it's okay to bark and when it's not.
Most dogs bark for one of three reasons.
They are bored;
They are lonely;
They see or hear something to bark at.
A plea of no contest isn't an admission of guilt or innocence. It's just a plea saying that you aren't going to fight the allegations but you aren't going to say that you did the deed either.
Sometimes neighbors can be very vindictive and it's not necessarily about the barking dog either.
Some of the easier ways to prevent problem barking is to keep the dog exercised and confined in such a way that he isn't seeing things to bark at. In severe or chronic cases a bark collar might have to be considered. I'm sorry that your friend is having a hard time.
I take it the dog must be an outdoor dog. If the dog is barking uncontrollably all night, then yes it would be a disturbance to those around who are trying to sleep. Maybe they should consider bringing their dog indoors for a while until it blows over.
I love animals and have had them all my life. There are people who do leave there dogs outside in the yard all night and wake people up, including my grandson who is 2, and it can become quite a nuisance. I wouldnt turn the people in, but i did speak to them about it. You do have a dog sometimes for protection, but if someone is trying to break into your house from the front, how is the dog gonna help if its in the yard? I would suggest that your friend start taking the dog inside when its starts to bark. Good luck
Isn't that the job a dogs to bark, when someone is near your property?Needing advice for my friend, who was recently served a noise disturbance for a dog?
A bark here or there is not a problem , It is when the dog barks all the time and the owner does nothing to quite him/her. It is the dog owners responsibility to make sure the dog is not disturbing the peace.
There is a guy in town who's dog is always barking. In the last month and 1/2 he has received 4 citations and fines of $150 for each citation plus court cost. Pretty steep price to pay for a dog barking, when all the owner had to do is go see what the problem is, tell the dog to be quiet or bring it in the house.Needing advice for my friend, who was recently served a noise disturbance for a dog?
not really but he will be fined most cities have it that if a dog barks too loud or too long u can be cited i know the feeling i fought and one my dog was prevoked the neighbor would tease so he could call the cops
Dogs bark yes, however, you should not allow your dog to bark for hours on end, expecially after certain hours. The dog should be brought inside, or given an activity to do to distract it from barking.
I dont know all the legal mumbo-jumbo, you may want to ask in the legal section.
Go to the legal section..they will be able to help you more than we can.
Good luck.
If your friend is not contestiong the ticket, then it may not mean that he is guilty, but the judge (if he goes in front of one) may ask him if he is.. but it's unlikely. Often, pleading guilty will get you a much lighter fine than if you try to fight it. A dog's responsibility is to be a family member, and inside with the pack. If the neighbors have an audio recording of the dog's barking.. and it is deemed excessive, then the owner needs to keep his dog quite at all costs.. it's no fun to live near a constantly barking dog, whether it be during the day or night
They are guilty for letting it get to the point that they had to be served! Try a bark collar to train the dog when it's okay to bark and when it's not.
Most dogs bark for one of three reasons.
They are bored;
They are lonely;
They see or hear something to bark at.
A plea of no contest isn't an admission of guilt or innocence. It's just a plea saying that you aren't going to fight the allegations but you aren't going to say that you did the deed either.
Sometimes neighbors can be very vindictive and it's not necessarily about the barking dog either.
Some of the easier ways to prevent problem barking is to keep the dog exercised and confined in such a way that he isn't seeing things to bark at. In severe or chronic cases a bark collar might have to be considered. I'm sorry that your friend is having a hard time.
I take it the dog must be an outdoor dog. If the dog is barking uncontrollably all night, then yes it would be a disturbance to those around who are trying to sleep. Maybe they should consider bringing their dog indoors for a while until it blows over.
I love animals and have had them all my life. There are people who do leave there dogs outside in the yard all night and wake people up, including my grandson who is 2, and it can become quite a nuisance. I wouldnt turn the people in, but i did speak to them about it. You do have a dog sometimes for protection, but if someone is trying to break into your house from the front, how is the dog gonna help if its in the yard? I would suggest that your friend start taking the dog inside when its starts to bark. Good luck
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